That's it! I am sick of the excuses. The excuses people give for why they cannot lose weight. Well, guess what? You can. But, it is YOUR choice. You choose to stay how you are. Unhappy and unhealthy. I no longer want to hear the whiney excuses. Either do something about it or go away.
Okay, here's the thing.
I have a friend with MS. She's always sick. But, not because of MS. Her stomach is upset all the time. But, if I ate foods that basically only consist of fat and sodium, my stomach would be too.
She has seen I have lost a considerable amount of weight and she wants it, too. But, like everyone else, she doesn't want to work for it. Instead it's easier to criticize me and try to pressure me to not be healthy. Well, too bad. This is who I am. Now. I am a -crazy-healthy-eating-running-woman! Deal with it.
Ironically, she says she wants to lose weight but doesn't have time or whatever. She also says she has no time to go to counseling.
Well, friend, if you don't have time NOW, when will you? Things aren't going to get any less busy than they are in college. There will be weddings, kids, families to take care of. So, tell me, WHEN are you going to start taking care of you?! It is your responsibility! No one else's!
As time goes on, I think I need to move on from this friendship. When we are together I feel like she is insulting me. She calls me weird which would not be so bad IF she didn't use it to insult like anyone that she doesn't understand their actions. She does it alot in discussion of running. Besides this, she is always judging me on like everything. It hurts/offends every time and not sure how to tell her this.
Than, she does this whiney-OMG-I'm-sorry face. She does it only when she says no to a request of mine. Fucking-a! Stop. Be yourself. If you don't want to do it, whatever. But, just quit being so flipping whiney in a don't-hurt-me-I'll-do-anything-for-you-as-long-as-you-are-still-my-friend way. Stand up for YOU.
Well, fuck!
Friday, August 12, 2011
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